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A former boss within the same company is having a baby. I have been invited to the baby shower but am unable to attend because I don't have childcare for my own children. Is it considered rude to not get a gift for her? I am pretty tight with the holidays coming and have 3 close friends having babies in the next 2 months. My former boss and I have never been very close.

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  1. I say if things are tight, than no, dont get a gift. Its a former boss, not your current boss, so she probably doesnt expect you to get her anything anyway.
  2. if you are not attending the shower, you are not required to send a gift. however if you are good friends with the mother to be, then i would visit her about 2 weeks after the baby is born and bring her a gift then. a small gift. gifts don't need to be expensive.
  3. a $2 set o bibs from Dollar General would be acceptable but naw you aint required to them anything
  4. Yes, it would be rude to not get a gift. But, you don't have to go all out on the gift. Just get something very simple like a pack of socks or booties, a couple of cute bibs, a couple of onsies and a card. Family Dollar, Dollar General have stuff like that for $1 to $3. You never know she might become your boss again in the future.
  5. You are not obligated under general rules of etiquette to get the mother-to-be a gift unless you are attending the shower. I would not worry about offending her, especially given the formal relationship between the two of you. If you were close friends with the mother then a gift would be expected. What you might want to do is just to send a card as a compliment and thank you for the invitation.
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